Eros is only one type of love, and in times past it was thought as impatient, irrational, and consuming. Tossing it to the wind or suppressing it isn’t the answer, I believe. But channeling it healthily, and respecting that not everyone feels those types of love I think is important, too.
So love thy neighbour, help a friend, spend time with your lover(s), your family (which may be chosen rather than the one you were born into), and be there for each other. And as much as we can celebrate our deep passions for one another, we should also cherish those in our community that don’t feel them, or partially feel them as well.